There are weeks where the body and brain feel flat — not unmotivated, not burned out, just tired. The kind of tired that doesn’t respond to a coffee, a snack, or a short break away from the screen.
As a self-employed neurodivergent professional, these weeks can feel particularly uncomfortable. There’s work to do. Clients to support. Training to prepare. And at the same time, a clear internal message that pushing harder isn’t going to help.
For many neurodivergent people, taking a break is often framed as something small and contained: grab a snack, scroll for a few minutes, step away briefly. And while those things can absolutely be helpful, they’re often not enough on their own.
Sometimes what the nervous system needs isn’t less input, it’s the right kind of input.
Low Energy Doesn’t Mean No Capacity
Low energy doesn’t always mean we need to stop everything. It often means we need to change how we’re engaging with the world.
During a recent stretch of humid weather here in sunny central Queensland, even after cooler days arrived, my energy stayed low. Cognitively, I could still work, but my nervous system felt heavy and dull. The kind of state where sitting still makes things worse, yet high-effort exercise feels impossible.
Rather than pushing through or attempting rest that didn’t truly help, I turned to low-pressure movement, spending time on an evening bike ride and rollerblading along the beach the following afternoon.
Alongside my clinical and professional work, I’m also an athlete and a coach. From that place, I was very aware that neither of these activities were about training. They weren’t about goals, metrics, or performance. They were about sensation, rhythm, and timing.
And that distinction matters.
Why Low-Demand Movement Can Be Regulating
For many autistic and ADHD adults, movement isn’t just physical, it’s neurological.
Activities like cycling or rollerblading can provide:
- Predictable, rhythmic motion that supports regulation
- Vestibular and proprioceptive input without cognitive load
- External sensory feedback (wind, movement, temperature) that helps reset internal states
The wind in my face while riding. The rolling, gliding motion of skating. The feeling of forward flow without having to make decisions or manage complexity.
These experiences don’t ask much from the brain, but they give a lot back to the body.
The Importance of Time of Day
Just as important as what we do is when we do it.
In the evening, riding through national parkland as the light filters through the trees offers a completely different sensory experience than being out in the middle of the day. The cooler air, softer light, and quieter environment reduce demand while increasing calm.
Similarly, skating by the beach just after sunset brings a gentle visual rhythm — shifting colours, open space, and the sound of water — that naturally supports nervous system settling.
This isn’t accidental. Our sensory systems are deeply influenced by light, temperature, and environmental complexity. Choosing times of day that reduce sensory strain can turn a simple activity into something genuinely restorative.
Rest That Engages the Whole Body
This is where the idea of “taking a break” often misses the mark for neurodivergent people.
Rest isn’t always passive. And it’s not always cognitive.
Sometimes rest looks like:
- Moving without thinking
- Being in a space that feels expansive rather than enclosed
- Letting the body lead instead of the schedule
A snack break might refuel blood sugar, but it doesn’t necessarily meet sensory or regulatory needs. Low-pressure movement, paired with calming sensory environments, often does.
Working Sustainably, Not Constantly
As someone who works with clients and delivers training, I’m very aware that my energy doesn’t just affect me; it affects the quality of what I offer others.
Taking time for this kind of regulation isn’t indulgent or avoidant. It’s part of working sustainably.
When I return to work after these experiences, I’m not suddenly “energised” in a high-octane way. Instead, I’m steadier. Calmer. More present. My thinking is clearer, my tolerance higher, and my capacity to engage with complexity improves.
That’s the difference between rest that simply pauses work and rest that supports it.
Permission to Do What Actually Helps
One of the most important shifts many neurodivergent adults make is moving away from prescribed ideas of rest and towards personalised regulation.
If sitting still doesn’t help, don’t force it.
If structured exercise feels like too much, it’s okay to choose something gentler.
If your nervous system needs movement, sensation, and space, listen to that.
Low energy doesn’t mean failure.
Taking breaks doesn’t mean disengaging from work.
And rest doesn’t have to look the way productivity culture says it should.
Sometimes it looks like a bike ride through the trees.
Or skating along the shoreline as the day fades.
Or choosing an experience that feeds the whole body, not just the mind.
And that’s not stepping away from your work.
That’s how you keep showing up to it.
Barb Cook is an AuDHD and dyslexic registered developmental educator, author, researcher, speaker and accredited Australian athletics coach, based in Australia.
Her work sits at the intersection of neurodivergence, health, wellbeing, movement, and sustainable living — informed by both professional expertise and lived experience.
Barb can often be found roller skating/blading, training, or exploring forms of movement that support regulation, strength, and joy rather than performance or perfection.
Learn more about Barb and her work here.
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